Despite their recent split, the 'Argo' actor and the 'Atlas' actress are prioritizing positivity and family as they move forward, though Affleck may be conflicted about Lopez's treatment of his children.
- September 3, 2024
AceShowbiz - Nearly two weeks after Jennifer Lopez filed for divorce from Ben Affleck, both stars seem to be adjusting to their new realities and focusing on the positives. Affleck, 52, is reportedly "doing well" and is in the process of settling into his new home.
"He's where he wants to be: close to his kids and in a neighborhood that he loves," a source told PEOPLE. The insider added that Affleck enjoys working and is very focused on the positives in his life.
On the other hand, Lopez, 55, is navigating her post-divorce life with a mix of bittersweet emotions. Despite feeling "some bitterness," she remains surrounded by family, friends and her children. "She still feels very fortunate," said a source close to Lopez, emphasizing her resilient and positive outlook even during difficult times. "She tried so hard to make things work and it didn't matter to Ben."
The divorce came after months of speculation about the couple's troubled marriage, which saw them living apart during the summer-Lopez in New York City and the Hamptons, and Affleck in Los Angeles. The singer/actress filed for divorce on August 20, the second anniversary of their Georgia wedding, listing April 26 as their separation date. The move was reportedly a clear message from Lopez, who did not hire an attorney for the filing. Legal expert Marilyn Chinitz suggested that Lopez "just wanted to get this done" and move forward from the relationship.
Despite the breakup, both celebrities are trying to maintain a sense of normalcy, especially around their children. Affleck is spending time with his three kids, Violet, 18, Seraphina, 15, and Samuel, 12, whom he shares with ex-wife Jennifer Garner. Meanwhile, Lopez is focusing on her 16-year-old twins, Max and Emme, whom she shares with ex-husband Marc Anthony.
Interestingly, affections towards children have caused some conflict. According to InTouch Weekly, Affleck is conflicted over Lopez's lavish gestures towards his children, describing her approach as a "Disneyland stepmom" style, which contrasts with his own parenting style. The sources mentioned that this difference in parenting has led to some tension.
While neither Lopez nor Affleck has publicly commented on their breakup, Lopez appeared to hint at her feelings in a recent Instagram post. She shared a reflective and peaceful message, underscoring her intent to "move forward" and focus on new beginnings.
