The '12 Years a Slave' actress 'didn't love' the romance rumor between her and 30 Seconds to Mars frontman, Jared Leto, because it 'almost took a toll' on their friendship.
- June 4, 2024
AceShowbiz - In a recent interview with Glamour, Oscar-winning actress Lupita Nyong'o shared deep insights into her personal and professional life, from navigating perplexing romance rumors with Jared Leto to finding solace in unexpected places post-heartbreak. Despite her global recognition and acclaim, Nyong'o's journey has not been without its profound challenges and learnings.
Nyong'o, who burst onto the Hollywood scene with a dazzling performance in "12 Years a Slave", soon found herself in the rumor mill during the 2014 awards season. Her close friendship with actor and musician Jared Leto sparked widespread speculation about a possible romantic relationship.
Addressing these rumors, she stated, "I paid no attention." However, she candidly admitted, "I didn't love all of the romance rumors and that it almost took a toll on her friendship with Leto. It was drawing attention away from the work. I didn't want that sort of attention."
Despite the unwanted media frenzy, Nyong'o's friendship with Leto remained genuine and supportive, with both often seen together during various events and ceremonies. Their camaraderie culminated when both took home the Best Supporting Academy Awards for their roles in "Dallas Buyers Club" and "12 Years a Slave".
Beyond her early career challenges, Nyong'o has also faced personal upheavals. Following her public split from TV host Selema Masekela. "There is a time to be open and there's a time not to be, and I chose that time to be open," she explained her decision to go public with their breakup.
"I had made the choice to share the relationship with the world, and I wanted to make the choice to share the end of it with the world," she said. "I knew that announcing it or sharing it with the world would mean there would be a reverb and I would have to deal with the onset of that."
In 2023, she revealed she was in a "season of heartbreak." Struggling to find joy once more, she turned to a surprising source of comfort - a cat named Yoyo. On this newfound companionship, Nyong'o reflected, "I was really having a hard time believing in joy. I wasn't there yet, but I was flirting with it. And I had a voice say in my head, 'Get a cat.' "
This decision proved transformative, with Yoyo helping her through the toughest of times, "I guess the best antidote for when you feel poorly taken care of is to take care of something and I took care of Yoyo and he pried my heart open."
Nyong'o's engagement with personal and social issues extends beyond personal experiences. She has been an outspoken advocate for movements like Oscars So White, Me Too, and Black Lives Matter. Reflecting on these efforts, she remarked, "There's been a lot of amplification of things that hadn't really been talked about before, and I definitely have been a beneficiary of many of those movements."
Throughout these professional achievements and personal revelations, Nyong'o remains a figure of resilience and grace. As she continues to shine in projects like the upcoming prequel "A Quiet Place: Day One", her journey is a testament to the power of friendship, self-care, and the courage to speak up for what matters.