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While Kate Hudson keeps refusing to answer questions related to her relationship with Nick Jonas, she makes it clear that she's currently single. In an interview for the December issue of Harper's Bazaar magazine, the "Something Borrowed" actress says that she really enjoys her single life.

"It's nice to get acquainted with myself alone," says the blonde beauty. "You know, the goal when you get into a relationship is not to be out of the relationship. It's to try to stay in the relationship. But if it doesn't work, you can't force those things."

"It's good to take a second to make my life about getting myself centered, clearing the energy, no overlapping," Kate continues. "I'm at that age now. I really do feel very lucky. I've had my kids and my relationships. I've set my life down - I'm in my house, and I'm alone with my children - and I'm at peace, and that's a really nice feeling. All I really want in my life is to maintain that."

Of her divorce from Chris Robinson in 2007 and broken engagement to Matthew Bellamy last year, Kate says, "I've chosen something in my life that I'm very comfortable with that goes against a lot of people's more traditional feelings." She continues, "If something's not right, I don't believe in maintaining something for the sake of what's considered a traditional family, because I believe that there are different ways to raise children. It's far more effective to raise children in happy homes."

During the interview, the 36-year-old actress also explains that it is wrong to say all Hollywood relationships are doomed. "I always laugh when people go, 'Hollywood... look at them.' I'm like, 'No, look at the world!' Statistically it's tough out there - relationships have a fifty-fifty chance. The odds aren't great, you know?"