
'The Last of Us' star Bella Ramsey reflects on the challenges and mixed reactions following their announcement as non-binary, providing a candid look into the personal and public ramifications of their gender identity.
- Apr 22, 2025
AceShowbiz - Bella Ramsey has been open about their gender identity, revealing in January 2023 that they identify as non-binary and use they/them pronouns. This revelation garnered a variety of responses, leading Ramsey to express moments of regret about their decision.
Speaking to The Observer, Ramsey confessed, "Part of me looks back and I wish that I didn't, because I didn't want it to become a headline and a big thing. And obviously it was going to, and I didn't really understand that at the time. And I wasn't really prepared for that."
Despite these reservations, they acknowledged that the announcement also provided positive impact, stating, "Overall, I think it was a good thing, just for me living more freely, without feeling like I'm keeping a secret."
Bella's nuanced identity is reflected in their remarks on gender fluidity. They find labels constricting and prefer to be perceived simply as a person, rather than being boxed into specific gender definitions. Ramsey notes that being gendered is not something they particularly enjoy, though they are indifferent to the pronouns people use for them.
The path to self-discovery has not been easy, especially in the public eye. Ramsey detailed their struggles with the lack of privacy in exploring facets of their gender identity. They expressed a desire to navigate such personal experiences away from the scrutiny that comes with fame.
"If I did want to explore other things, like facets of my gender identity, that would be done publicly," said Ramsey.
Adding another layer to their identity, Bella revealed they were diagnosed with autism during the filming of the first season of "The Last of Us". This diagnosis was significant for them, as they articulated that it was "freeing" and enabled self-compassion.
Bella's experiences aren't solitary within their professional circle. They shared discussions on gender identity with co-star Pedro Pascal, whose sibling Lux is a transgender. These conversations range from deep and meaningful to light and humorous, reflecting a supportive environment.
Ramsey's journey continues to resonate with many, providing visibility and representation that can be empowering for others grappling with similar issues. Despite facing criticism and online trolling, Bella remains a dynamic figure whose story underscores the importance of authenticity and self-acceptance in the face of societal pressures.