Lisa Rinna addresses rumors about Harry Hamlin's sexuality in her new book, offering candid insight into their decades-long marriage and intimate life.
- April 22, 2026
AceShowbiz - Lisa Rinna is opening up about rumors concerning her husband Harry Hamlin’s sexuality and offering candid reflections on their relationship.
In her new book You Better Believe I’m Gonna Talk About It, the former Real Housewives of Beverly Hills star addresses the speculation that [strong]Harry Hamlin[/strong] might be gay—a rumor sparked decades ago after he portrayed a gay character in the 1982 film Making Love.
Lisa Rinna writes, “When you’re a good-looking man in Hollywood with a good sense of style, that adds up to ‘is he gay?’” She then decisively dispels the rumors: “[strong]Harry’s heterosexual[/strong]. He is not a gay man in any way, shape or form, not that there’s anything wrong with that.”
Having been married since 1997, Lisa also offers insight into their intimate life. She reveals that “the sex is still great” between them because they remain “really attracted to each other.” Though their physical relationship may not be as frequent as in the past, when it happens, it’s “as good as it’s ever been.”
“After all these years, [strong]Harry and I still feel like a team[/strong],” she emphasizes, highlighting the strength of their bond beyond just romance.
Aside from their private life, the couple also works closely on personal projects. Lisa shares that [strong]Harry[/strong] is a “voracious reader” and “really, really smart,” making her nervous about his reaction to her book, which delves into vulnerable topics including their marriage, her postpartum experience, the loss of her parents, and her career.
However, she happily reports that he “really liked it” and found her writing “very brave” and “very vulnerable.” In fact, the Days of Our Lives actress notes that [strong]Harry was deeply moved[/strong] while reading, even tearing up as he connected with the portrayal of their 34 years together.
“His approval was the most validating for me because I care what he thinks more than anybody,” Lisa adds, underscoring the closeness and mutual respect that define their relationship.
Beyond their marriage, [strong]Lisa Rinna[/strong] is also a mother to daughters Delilah Belle, 27, and Amelia, 24, with [strong]Harry Hamlin[/strong]. Her openness about her personal life contrasts with many Hollywood figures who avoid such candid conversations.
Her honesty and willingness to confront rumors head-on have made headlines, positioning her as a forthright figure in reality television and beyond. The book’s release has sparked renewed interest in their enduring partnership and the challenges they have navigated together.
In addition to these intimate revelations, Lisa continues to maintain a public presence through appearances and media projects. Her transparency about sensitive subjects resonates with fans who appreciate her straightforward approach.
Overall, Lisa Rinna’s new book and interviews provide a clear message: the longstanding rumors about [strong]Harry Hamlin’s[/strong] sexuality are unfounded, and their marriage remains strong, affectionate, and respectful after more than three decades.