
In a world where chasing blockbuster fame is the norm, Matt Bomer stands out for his intentional career choices, including his surprising decision to turn down a role in the wildly successful film, 'Barbie.'
- Apr 13, 2025
AceShowbiz - In the whirlwind post-Covid that was 2023, "Barbie" shattered the box office, igniting cultural conversations and casting its actors into the limelight. Two years later, Matthew Bomer reflected on his deliberate choice to turn down the role of Ken.
Instead, he opted to immerse himself in the emotionally rich and critically acclaimed Leonard Bernstein biopic, "Maestro," directed and fronted by Bradley Cooper. Despite "Barbie" massive success, Bomer insisted he wouldn't have it any other way.
Speaking to Business Insider, Bomer opened up about his decision. "Even though my part in 'Maestro' was smaller, Bradley was so collaborative with me from the get-go," he shared.
The experience, he said, was "life-changing," emphasizing the profound impact of his time on the project. For Bomer, the choice wasn't just about screen time - it was about fully engaging with the creative process and honoring his commitments.
Bomer's dedication to "Maestro" meant diving deeply into his role as David Oppenheim, Bernstein's lover, making it a far more rewarding experience than a fleeting stint on another set could provide.
The intensity and emotional weight of the project were pivotal for Bomer, shaping his approach to dramatic acting "for probably for the rest of my career on film."
While missing out on the viral "Barbenheimer" moment might seem like a lost opportunity, Bomer stands by his decision. "To have just flown in from London to film my scenes [in 'Barbie'] really quick and fly back to London - I feel like 'Maestro' wouldn't have been the same experience for me," he remarked.
Prioritizing his family's needs also played a crucial role, as squeezing in another high-profile project would have required time away from his husband Simon Halls and their two children.
After wrapping up roles in emotionally intense projects such as "Fellow Travelers" and "Maestro," Bomer has shifted gears. He now stars in Hulu's "Mid-Century Modern," a light-hearted sitcom about three queer friends living together in Palm Springs.
In a departure from his recent dramatic endeavors, Bomer plays Jerry Frank, a charming but somewhat dim-witted flight attendant. Describing the show as having shades of "Golden Girls," Bomer highlighted the joy and laughter it brings - a welcomed change of pace for both him and the audience.
Though Matt Bomer's decision might have meant missing out on a blockbuster phenomenon, his commitment to genuine, immersive storytelling remains unwavering.